So last time we asked what you’d to see next and we got HOW TO AVOID TOXIC RELATIONSHIP, In as much this discussion is deep we would like to take a shorter cut and always this is our point of view, we might be wrong, but we always have the comment section open to everyone to point their views.
With that being said let’s, first of all, understand what toxic relationships are: toxic relationships are mainly behavioral meaning the comportment of one or both partners.
They don’t write toxicity on people’s faces, like are no signboards on Emeka’s face telling you that he is toxic until you get close to him or get involved with him.
Adeola is a beautiful girl she wakes me up to pray for me, she sends broadcast messages of love and rhapsody of realities every morning but she doesn’t like me communicating with other females she calls it marking her territory.
Most times we miss the little signs that are placed before us, we see them as nothing until they escalate and we no longer have control over them.
I will try to make a short explanatory story then extract another way it could have gone remember, the names that I am about to use aren’t real but just imaginary so now let’s put our imaginations to work.
Oscar and Pearl were really good friends, they spoke almost every day and they enjoyed each others company, Oscar recently broke up with his girlfriend Pearl was like his safe haven she made him feel good again but always wants to talk to pearl, Pearl felt it was because he is still going through a break up so she didn’t read any meaning to it, days turned to weeks and weeks to months all of a sudden Oscar doesn’t her to talk to her old friends anymore because he felt they were a bad influence to her, he made it so convincing that she had no option than to start distancing herself from her friends. One faithful day he asked her to date him, she was already into him so she accepted to date him, the first week it went well and it was all love, they were already used to each other, but his clingy attitude only got worse, she couldn’t bear it anymore as it turned from Love to obsession and every little thing he threatens to kill himself and make responsible.
The above story is a typical example of a toxic relationship, Pearl saw signs but decided to ignore them please don’t ignore the tiniest sign don’t ignore it because you might be saving your life and a whole lot of stress.
One more thing Toxicity in relationships can come from both partners, if that is the case, then I think you should sit and get yourself checked before going into any relationship because going into a relationship with toxicity only creates another toxic person which means that person taking care of he’s/her’s will go and date another, making it go-round for the sake of yourself and others, work things out for yourself first.
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Thanks and God Bless.